Help for the first few weeks with your new dog.

By Sue Sternberg - www.suesternberg.com

Bringing home an adolescent or adult dog is an incredibly rewarding experience. These dogs have so much love to give, and with your patience and effort, they’ll become a lifelong friend. Remember—no dog is perfect. Every dog has a few behaviors to work through, but if your new companion has a sound temperament, your care and consistency will help make the transition a lasting success.

What to Expect

When you open your heart and home to a new dog, you can count on a few things:

• A little less freedom in your daily schedule.

• A few house accidents in the first days.

• The possible loss of a favorite shoe or pillow to curious teeth.

But you can also expect laughter, amazement, and love. Most early behavior challenges are completely normal and can be easily managed with structure and understanding.

Helping Your Dog Feel Secure When Alone

Many adopted dogs attach deeply and quickly—especially those from shelters or the streets. Being left alone can cause stress or separation anxiety. You can help by teaching your dog from day one that departures and returns are normal.

Tips to make alone time easier:

• Be casual about leaving and coming home—no big goodbyes or overexcited greetings.

• From the moment you bring your dog home, practice short departures. Step outside for a few seconds, then return. Gradually increase the time.

• Ignore your dog for at least 20 minutes before you leave. Quietly get ready and go.

• Leave a TV or radio on for background noise.

• Stay calm and confident—your dog will follow your lead.

Setting Boundaries from the Start

Dogs feel safest when they know what to expect. Structure and routine create security. During the first few weeks, the kindest thing you can do is set clear rules and gently enforce them.

• Give your dog a schedule for feeding, walks, and quiet time.

• Teach a simple command like “sit” early—it builds communication and mutual understanding.

• Don’t overpamper or allow behavior you don’t want long-term.

• Praise your dog for calm behavior and redirect unwanted actions immediately.

Your confidence and consistency will make your dog feel reassured and loved.

With patience and encouragement, your dog will quickly learn what’s expected.

Remember

Structure, calm energy, and small, consistent steps will make the first few weeks smoother for both of you. Before long, your dog will relax, trust, and settle into your household rhythm—grateful to finally be home.